At what point am I still responsible?

At what point am I still responsible?

Episode 175 – January 20th, 2025

This week, I want to again answer a question I received directly from a woman in this community:

“Chana, I’ve heard you talking about not having to feel responsible to keep your kids constantly entertained and happy. My question is, how does this apply to younger kids? How can I stimulate them so they don’t get into trouble? How can I put them in charge of their not being bored or is this still on me to help my five-year-old figure out activities to do?”

The answer that I have to this question is one you don’t want to miss, even if you don’t have five year old children, because it goes to the heart of many of the struggles with communication and personal feelings of joy that women share with me.

I invite you to join me to hear my answer! 

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Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

What if my real self is not so lovable?

Episode 174 – January 13th, 2025

This week, I want to answer a question I received directly from a woman in this community:

You have said that women being their real selves is most appealing appealing to their husbands.

But, what if someone’s real them is not so nice? Lazy, angry, not polite, not caring, manipulative…

I would have thought most husbands would not like such a thing at all!

I invite you to join me to hear my answer! 

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

Sticking to a goal for real!

Episode 173 – January 6th, 2025

Thinking of a new goal for yourself?

Why is it that setting goals usually ends in frustration and disappointment?

It’s tempting to see this time of year as a fresh opportunity for new commitments to ourselves, but how do we make sure we don’t end up abandoning them before we hit the goal?

I invite you to listen to this week’s Coffee and Connection episode all about how to actually stick to your resolutions! 

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

A Chanuka answer to the question, HOW?!

Episode 172 – December 30th, 2024

I’ve been thinking about some ideas about Chanuka, and how it relates to building connection in our lives, and I would love to share them with you.

Join me for a quick Chanuka inspired Coffee and Connection episode all about how to turn all that you have learned into powerful knowledge.

Special Ready for Connection NOW package still available until the end of Chanuka! Check it out here – https://chanadeutsch.com/readyforconnection 

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

Isn’t fighting a bad sign?

Episode 171 – December 9th, 2024

If you saw a couple you knew having an argument, what would you start to think about them?

If you knew your neighbor heard you and your husband fighting, how would you feel?

Whatever first comes to your mind are your core beliefs about conflict.

Join me for this week’s Coffee and Connection episode where I will share how these beliefs themselves can actually be causing much of the pain we experience in an argument

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

So, why DON’T we fight?

Episode 170 – December 2nd, 2024

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The last two weeks, we’ve been discussing why fighting is not always bad, and how always looking to “keep the peace” can actually be bad for your marriage.

So…why don’t we fight?

Join me for this week’s Coffee and Connection episode for all the reasons why we hold back from dealing with our differences, and a real look at how to honor our values. 

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

Why do we fight?

Episode 169 – November 25th, 2024

Do you ever find yourself in the middle of a fight, not really knowing how you got there?

Do little issues turn into heated and lengthy discussions without you meaning them to get so emotional?

Join me for this week’s Coffee and Connection episode for a look at what actually creates fights and how to use that awareness to turn conflict into moments of connection.

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

Can fighting be good for a marriage?

Episode 168 – November 18th, 2024

There is a prevalent belief out there that fighting, in any capacity, is horrible for marriage.

And that difficult conversations are bad for intimacy.

But what if NOT fighting was actually the intimacy killer?

And what if it was the root of much of the pain women experience in their marriage?

Join me for this week’s Coffee and Connection episode for a real conversation on the danger of this trend of avoiding fights at all costs and the power of fighting right! 

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

How can I feel more confident?

Episode 167 – November 11th, 2024

Do you sometimes find yourself feeling doubt and confusion over how to deal with a challenge?

And then proceed to feel worse because you think you should be confident and sure of the right way to deal with it?

Do you want to ask someone for support, but then feel bad because you think, “I should know this already!”?

Join me for this week’s Coffee and Connection episode for a real conversation on how to break out of these loops and experience more clarity and a calm, confident mindset as you deal with everyday decisions and struggles. 

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…

At what point am I still responsible?

Let me just get organized…

Episode 166 – November 4th, 2024

Now that we have some time to breathe and go into routine, I’m seeing a trend of focusing on how to get the most done.

But how can we be productive without simultaneously getting lost in our never-ending to-do lists?

And how can we get things done without it sacrificing connection and peace?

Join me for this week’s Coffee and Connection episode for a real conversation on how to stay focused on your goals inside the overwhelm of all there is to do! 

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Coffee and Connection is a weekly opportunity to learn actionable and practical solutions to your biggest questions and challenges.

Taking time weekly for yourself, to learn, laugh and connect with a community of women who understand your struggles, is an amazing gift you give to yourself and your relationship.

Knowing you are not alone, and that there are solutions to your frustrations, is validating and empowering!

So, you are invited to grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice!) and begin connecting now…