Episode 206 – November 24th, 2025

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For this week’s Coffee & Connection, I want to talk about something so many women struggle with quietly:

What do you do when your real experience in marriage and intimacy doesn’t match the way people talk about it in classes, articles, or even Shalom Bayis workshops?

So many women feel confused or even ashamed because they don’t see themselves in the mainstream conversations. And when you feel “different,” it’s easy to think something is wrong with you… or with your marriage.

But here’s the thing:

Your experience might be normal — just not the version people talk about publicly.

So today on Coffee & Connection, I’m sharing three real, common, but rarely spoken-about experiences that so many women think they are the only ones experiencing. 

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I get asked so many beautiful, vulnerable questions, and there’s one theme that keeps coming up again and again:

“What’s normal in marriage?”

It sounds like such a simple question… but it’s actually one of the biggest sources of pain for women.

Because when we don’t know what’s normal, we fill the gaps with fear.

We assume the worst.

We turn totally human moments into signs that something is wrong with us or wrong with our marriage.

So today on Coffee & Connection, I’m diving into this exact topic.

Episode 204 – November 10th, 2025

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Have you ever found yourself working so hard to create connection…

Staying calm, saying the “right” things, doing everything you’ve been told will bring you closer…

And yet, somehow, it still feels like something’s missing?

You’re not alone.

In this week’s Coffee & Connection, I’m talking about that quiet disconnection so many women feel, the kind that shows up even when when you are doing everything “right.”

We’ll explore why all your effort sometimes leaves you feeling more distant instead of closer, and what might really be getting in the way of the intimacy you long for.

No tips or quick fixes – just an honest, compassionate conversation that will help you start seeing your marriage (and yourself) in a new light.

Episode 202 – October 20th, 2025

If you’re ready to go deeper, I also have the Absolutely Irresistible intimacy program coming soon! You can join the waitlist here – https://chanadeutsch.com/waitlist/

Have you seen the videos of families being reunited with the hostages in Israel?

Each one is breathtaking – the tears, the relief, the pure love that pours out when everything else fades away.

It reminds us of what really matters… how at the core of all our relationships is this deep, simple desire to love and be loved.

But sometimes, in that inspiration, we start to believe we should always feel grateful. That we should focus only on the good and forget about our struggles.

And that can quietly turn into pressure, frustration, and even guilt for being human.

In this week’s Coffee and Connection, we’ll explore both sides – the beauty of remembering what truly matters, and the importance of staying honest about the places we still get stuck.

Join me for this heartfelt conversation about love, gratitude, and what it really means to grow through our challenges.