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So many women carry meaningful questions, especially about intimacy, and aren’t sure where it’s safe to ask them.

As a result, important questions often go unasked, sometimes for years.

Today on Coffee & Connection, I want to talk about why these questions matter, and what becomes possible when they’re answered with care, clarity, and the right context.

Join me for a real conversation about why having a safe, contained space to ask these questions matters, and how it can change everything.

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Many women I speak to are deeply committed to their marriages and truly doing the work, and yet they feel frustrated that the same habits and reactions keep showing up.

In today’s episode, I talk about getting curious as to what’s underneath the patterns you’re trying so hard to break, and why effort alone often doesn’t create change.

Join me for a real conversation about what’s really happening when habits don’t shift, and how understanding what’s driving them can open the door to real movement.

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Chanuka is beautiful… and it can also bring things to the surface.

More time together.

More expectations.

More pressure to feel “connected,” “happy,” or “grateful.”

And sometimes, instead of warmth, what shows up is frustration, distance, or a quiet sense of disappointment.

For this Coffee & Connection, I did a Q&A-style episode to address what came up for you over Chanuka in your marriage, your home and yourself.

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Can you relate to the feeling of swinging between these two extremes? –

On one side, we focus almost entirely on what isn’t working in our relationships, replaying the challenges and feeling discouraged or disconnected.

And on the other side, we try to push past the hard parts and “just see the good,” telling ourselves to be grateful and positive, even when something still feels unresolved.

Neither of those extremes truly brings peace or connection.

Join me for a conversation on the power of recognizing all three: our victories, our challenges, and our gratitudes, to help us see our lives and relationships more honestly and more clearly.

We’ll explore how holding all three at once can soften tension, create emotional safety, and help us show up with more presence and compassion in our marriages, our families, and within ourselves.

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One topic that comes up a lot in my coaching is how hard it can feel when life isn’t smooth.

When something feels off in your marriage, in your family, or even in yourself, and it quietly leads you to wonder, “What did I do wrong?”

Those moments can also bring a deep sense of disconnection from your dreams, from your husband and family, and even from Hashem.

Join me for a real conversation about moving through these messier moments of life.

Not how to push the feelings away, but to understand how to stay calm and connected, even when life feels unclear.

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After last week’s Coffee & Connection, so many of you reached out saying how comforting it was to finally hear:

“You are normal. Your marriage is normal. Your experience is normal.”

And I’m so glad it landed.

But I also know something else tends to happen next (and it too is so normal!)

Even after you know you’re normal, the old fears can pop right back up.

Because those fears lived inside you for years. They shaped how you interpreted your marriage, your husband, yourself. They became the background noise of your inner world.

So of course they don’t disappear overnight.

That’s why this week’s session is all about how to stay calm, clear, and connected even when the old fear rises.

That’s the work that changes everything.